Do and Should Perfect Parents Exist? With Dr Mary O'Kane


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Jul 26 2024 46 mins   2

Embracing Imperfect Parenting: A Conversation with Dr. Mary O'Kane


In this episode of the Wonder Care Podcast, Sheena Mitchell, a pharmacist and mum of three, discusses positive parenting with Dr. Mary O'Kane, a lecturer in psychology and author of 'Perfectly Imperfect Parenting' and 'Anxious Children in an Anxious World.' They explore societal pressures on parents, the importance of allowing children to experience minor risks, and the impact of parental anxiety on children. The conversation highlights the benefits of 'good enough' parenting, understanding and validating children's emotions, and fostering resilience by stepping back and letting children navigate challenges. Dr. O'Kane shares insights into balancing parenting imperfections and encouraging kids' independence and bravery.


00:00 Welcome to the Wonder Care Podcast

00:19 Introducing Dr. Mary O'Kane

01:07 The Pressure of Perfect Parenting

02:27 Judgment and Control in Parenting

04:56 The Impact of Overprotective Parenting

07:06 Encouraging Independence in Children

11:46 The Role of Media in Parenting Anxiety

15:20 Safe Risk-Taking and Building Confidence

17:27 Practical Tips for Encouraging Independence

23:54 Overprotectiveness and Parenting Challenges

24:21 Impact of Parental Mood on Children

25:50 COVID-19 and Children's Anxiety

26:48 The Importance of Parental Calmness

27:48 Supporting Anxious Children

28:03 The Second Chicken Experiment

30:15 Validating Children's Feelings

35:42 Rupture and Repair in Parenting

38:23 The Myth of Perfect Parenting

42:39 Embracing Imperfection and Learning from Mistakes

44:41 Conclusion and Final Thoughts


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