137. The Addiction People Are Too Scared To Talk About (Part 1) Ft. Patrick Eilers


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Feb 25 2024 63 mins  

In this episode, we explore the often silent battle with sexual and porn addiction.

Our guest, Patrick, holds a Master’s degree in counseling from Moody Theological Seminary-Michigan, specializing in the intersection of psychology, therapy, and theology. He is a licensed professional counselor in Michigan with a focus on sexual addiction since 2020.

Patrick is affiliated with various professional organizations such as the American Counseling Association (ACA), AACC Professional Life Coach Certification, Green Cross Member of Traumatology (GCAT), Gottman Level 1 trained, Michigan Counselors Association (MCA), and the American Association of Christian Counselors (AACC).

Today's discussion marks the first part of a two-part series delving into the complexities of porn and sex addiction, topics often brushed aside due to societal taboos. Despite its prevalence, many individuals hesitate to seek help for fear of judgment or ostracization.

Statistics from Psychology Today reveal that the average age of first exposure to porn is 13, setting the stage for a potential lifelong struggle. Shockingly, around 80% of men and 30% of women (45% when considering women who watch with their partners) engage with porn on a weekly basis.

It's crucial to recognize that sexual and porn addiction is more widespread than commonly acknowledged. Our aim in discussing this issue is to break the silence, provide education, and extend resources to those grappling with this addiction.

In my conversation with Patrick we discuss

  • What causes porn addiction
  • How to tell if you’re a sex addict and or porn addict
  • How social media affects or promotes porn addiction
  • How therapy can help with recovery
  • How emotions and mental health correlate with compulsive sexual behaviors
  • How porn addiction affects romantic relationships and,
  • How faith and religion play a role in recovery

Where to find Patrick/resources:

https://northpoint.buzzsprout.com/
www.northpoint-counseling.com
www.treatsexualaddiction.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/patrick-eilers-ma-lpc-csat-310036b9/
Instagram: rated_pge

Time stamps:

0:00 Intro/Exploring Porn and Sex Addiction
14:02 Understanding Factors Influencing Sexual Behavior
20:47 Navigating Relationships and Sexual Addiction
26:45 Navigating Betrayal and Trauma in Relationships
37:10 Brain Pathways and Overcoming Addictive Behaviors
42:06 Understanding Addiction and Triggers
54:20 Overcoming Shame and Embracing Identity
1:02:11 Outro

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