Dear Black Gay Men Podcast

Jai The Gentleman posted this reel about dating trans men and the part that got the most commentary was when I said “f*ck people not parts”. As much as I know this applies to dating people of trans experience, I think the rest of Black gay culture still can use the memo. This is how Jai The Gentleman learned about the fetishization of men in Black gay culture, and what the cul

Jai The Gentleman posted this reel about dating trans men and the part that got the most commentary was when I said “f*ck people not parts”. As much as I know this applies to dating people of trans experience, I think the rest of Black gay culture still can use the memo. This is how Jai The Gentleman learned about the fetishization of men in Black gay culture, and what the cul

This epsiode Jai The Gentleman does a deep dive into the dating pool: why can't we find a man. Team DBGM gets emails, DMs, mentions/tags from listeners wondering why the dating pool hasn't yielded a relationship. Jai is going through some similar woes, but has finally uncovered that it might not be the dating pool; it's actuall him. New uploads TUESDAYS, WEDNESDAYS & THURSDAY

This episode Jai The Gentleman dives deep into a challenge a lot of Black gay men (and people) in the dating pool deal with: why can't he just do what I want him to? Jai unpacks how a celebration for a friend's new job turned into an internal dialogue that, he says, has held him back from a relationship. New uploads TUESDAYS, WEDNESDAYS & THURSDAYS Support the Channel: https

In this episode, Jai The Gentleman discusses a recent break-up he went through. The topic came up on a previous episode of Dear Black Gay Men where Jai talked through sexual incompatibility. Today, Jai goes a little deeper on some lessons that he uncovered after a couple months distance. The big question is, should Jai go back. Screenshot this episode, share it to your IG and let

Judge me later, but I was at a sex club the other week. Guy walks up to me and said the weirdest things in an effort to avoid saying what he actually wanted to share. New uploads Tuesdays, Wednesdays & Thursdays on YouTube: youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen Support the Channel: https://bit.ly/43lQ2N9 Listen to the podcast: https://tinyurl.com/5ymdtdx4 ➡️ Shop DBGM Merch

Thirsty Thursday, every week, 8pm on YT : youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen This week Jai The Gentleman discusses: The guy at the gym and why he could never Subscribe to second channel: youtube.com/@jaithegentleman Shop Brand New Merch: https://dearblackgaymen.shop Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/49lxwQaRAKrBwjxeRN0NAu?si=0b830412dcf141df Listen on Apple Podcasts:

Thirsty Thursday, every week, 8pm on YT : youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen This week Jai The Gentleman discusses: Why I need a man, and exactly what kind of man he needs to be. Subscribe to second channel: youtube.com/@jaithegentleman Shop Brand New Merch: https://dearblackgaymen.shop Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/49lxwQaRAKrBwjxeRN0NAu?si=0b830412dcf141df List

Thirsty Thursday, every week, 8pm on YT : youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen This week Jai The Gentleman discusses: Why "wyd" is never wyd. Subscribe to second channel: youtube.com/@jaithegentleman Shop Brand New Merch: https://dearblackgaymen.shop Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/49lxwQaRAKrBwjxeRN0NAu?si=0b830412dcf141df Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.

Thirsty Thursday, every week, 8pm on YT : youtube.com/@dearblackgaymen This week Jai The Gentleman discusses: How I stumbled into interviewing my #1 dream guest and why my vision just got a whole lot bigger. Subscribe to second channel: youtube.com/@jaithegentleman Shop Brand New Merch: https://dearblackgaymen.shop Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/49lxwQaRAKrBw