s0 wet s0 dry

Mar 05 2025 96 ep. 103 mins 2

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Fiji & Autumn explore sex, relationships, and personal identity through an intersectional feminist lens where pop culture, internet culture, and reality collide. We unpack tough topics and challenge norms to expand our understanding of self and the society that shapes it. From the online gender wars to misunderstood kinks to relearning how to date, we’re somewhere between wet, dry, and fxcking confused. Listen in on our FaceTime calls for the nuanced reality check that only a best friend (and some research) can provide 💦🌵💕 🎙️new episodes every thursday🎙️

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the polyamorous look, lesbian codependency, & love is blind

Mar 05 2025 50 mins

This week on s0 wet s0 dry Fiji and Autumn discuss everyone’s favorite reality tv shows right now: Love is Blind and The Bachelor. What’s with the damsel in distress trope? Why have anxiously attached people won the internet? Also, are polyamorous people *really* ugly? And why are lesbians so codependant? Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1D01kdRrazBdE1aYQ91w8k1MIoypU

debunking main character syndrome

Feb 26 2025 85 mins

This week on s0 wet s0 dry Fiji and Autumn deep dive main character syndrome.We’re talking: Dressing like a main character, friends that are lowkey haters, being afraid of calling attention to yourself, different types of main characters, self-obsession, narcissism, being in the moment, letting life happen to you, main character energy, being a side character to someone else, tak

why do we party?: partying as performance art

Feb 19 2025 123 mins

This week on s0 wet s0 dry Fiji and Autumn ask: why do we party?We’re talking: CharlieXCX and Brat, Chappell Roan’s Pink Pony Club, going to your first queer bar, growing up through partying, social alcohol dependency, different vibes in different spaces, going out to find people like you, party culture simulating community, what is true community?, the cultural impact of Freak

why is everything cringe (and ableist)

Feb 12 2025 87 mins

This week on s0 wet s0 dry Fiji and Autumn ask: why is everything cringe? And also…. Ableist?We’re talking: Why did cringe culture become so popular? What’s considered cringe? Why do we enjoy cringing at others? The authentic era of social media, cringe vs second-hand embarrassment, main character syndrome, the psychology of cringe, cringing at ourselves, embracing the cringe

Lesbian Boyfriends, Mark Zuckerberg, and Sobriety

Feb 05 2025 59 mins

This week on s0 wet s0 dry autumn passionately defends Cynthia and Arianna’s emotional wicked press tour and Fiji achieves a month of nicotine + alcohol sobriety while she tries not to crash out. Mark Zuckerberg discovered Brazilian jiu jitsu and is making it everyone’s problem and maybe what we all really need is a lesbian boyfriend Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/

abandoning your creativity for male validation: the male gaze and being perceived

Jan 29 2025 113 mins

This week on s0 wet s0 dry, Fiji and Autumn ask: are we abandoning our creativity for male validation? Are we more creative when we’re single? Do we know ourselves outside of the male gaze? We’re talking: Being creative with your partner, lacking self-worth, daddy issues, conforming to the male ideal, how the need for male validation affects our voice, prioritizing male validat

Why do we f*ck?: the art of casual sex

Jan 22 2025 98 mins

This week on s0 wet s0 dry, Fiji and Autumn ask: why do we fuck? What is sex supposed to be for? How serious should we be about sex? Is casual sex bad? We’re talking: The different purposes of sex, one night stands as art, having sex together versus masburbating with someone else’s body, finding a balance, discovering your boundaries, dealing with post-hook up shame, polls, li

2025 Ins and Outs: Girls Girls, Perverts, and Sincerity

Jan 16 2025 75 mins

This week on s0 wet s0 dry, Fiji and Autumn give you our top ins and outs for 2025. We also missed updating you on what’s got us wet and dry lately so here’s an update🙃 2025 Los Angeles Fires Resources: abcnews.go.com/US/california-fires-victims gofund.me/3f3b2f3d instagram.com/share tiny.cc/malan-fire Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1cC6P75WlgIqCVbHht_untnUad9z

Findom: Ceechynna, pay pigs, and Alpha Kings

Jan 08 2025 161 mins

This week on s0 wet s0 dry, Fiji and Autumn deep dive the findom kinks and findom jobs. Is findom sex work? Is it easy? Can findom become an addiction for subs? Can findom be a sexuality? We’re talking: The creativity of findom, #findom trending on TikTok, scams, the ethics of findom courses, a tangent on the Lily Phillips controversy, misconceptions about findom, the over-satur

stop blaming algorithms for the gender wars

Dec 28 2024 181 mins

This week on s0 wet s0 dry, Fiji and Autumn deep dive the political and dating gender wars with part 3 of this 3-part series. Should we really blame algorithms for the gender wars? How does self-improvement content effect the gender wars? Do we need more censorship? Are the gender wars all the manosphere’s fault? Can feminism get toxic? What does bell hooks have to say about all