The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast

Oct 28 2024 190 ep. 58 mins 13

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The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast is hosted by Roy Biancalana, a certified relationship coach, three-time #1 best-selling author and nationally-recognized expert in the field of attraction and conscious relationships. His podcast is devoted to supporting single people in their desire to attract a healthy, sustainable, intimate relationship. The perspective shared is a mindful or conscious perspective on life, love and the pursuit of intimacy. Roy does not focus much on telling single people where to go, how to approach or what to say to a potential partner. Rather, he focuses on helping people identify and let go of the barriers, blockages and self-sabotaging patterns that keep them single. Roy's work and this podcast are in alignment with the advice given from the famous 13th century mystic poet, Rumi, who said, "Your task is not to seek love, but instead to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it."

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190 Understanding the Relationship Life Cycle, Pt. 1: The Purchase Phase

Oct 28 2024 59 mins

I got to thinking the other day—probably because I have too much time on my hands—that an intimate relationship is a lot like owning a car. There are 3 major phases when owning a car. There’s the purchase phase, the maintenance phase and the selling phase. If you want a good experience with a car, you need to know how to navigate each of those phases, right? It’s the sa

189 A Deep Dive Into Trauma: A Conscious Perspective on Life's Deepest Pain (and how to resolve it)

Oct 21 2024 62 mins

The issue of "Trauma" brings up some very important questions, the first of which is, how do you know if you have Trauma (with a capital "T") or just basic baggage/pain from the past and its corresponding neurosis? The second question that comes up is, how do I deal with them? What processes, strategies or support do I need to find freedom from Trauma or basic baggage? These and ot

188 ChatGPT vs Conscious Wisdom, Question #5: Am I Ready to Work With a Relationship Coach?

Oct 14 2024 42 mins

There are some very important questions that single people ask concerning their pursuit of intimacy, but in this, the final episode of the series, there’s a big twist. Instead of addressing another frequently asked question, as was the case in the previous four episodes, Roy addresses a question that single people should be asking, but usually don’t. In the final episode of

187 ChatGPT vs. Conscious Wisdom, Question #4: What makes a WOMAN most attractive to the opposite sex?

Oct 07 2024 55 mins

There are some very important questions that single people ask concerning their pursuit of intimacy, and in this episode, we address the third question. But where do you go for answers you can trust? Well, at the risk of oversimplifying, you can ask A.I. (Artificial Intelligence via the Internet) or you can seek C.I. (Conscious Intelligence via a relationship expert). A.I. is

186 ChatGPT vs. Conscious Wisdom, Question #3: What makes a MAN most attractive to the opposite sex?

Sep 30 2024 55 mins

There are some very important questions that single people ask concerning their pursuit of intimacy, and in this episode, we address the third question. But where do you go for answers you can trust? Well, at the risk of oversimplifying, you can ask A.I. (Artificial Intelligence via the Internet) or you can seek C.I. (Conscious Intelligence via a relationship expert). A.I. is

185 ChatGPT vs Conscious Wisdom, Question #2: What strategy should a 50-year-old (ish) person use to find a life partner?

Sep 23 2024 67 mins

There are some very important questions that single people ask concerning their pursuit of intimacy, and in this episode, we address the second question. But where do you go for answers you can trust? Well, at the risk of oversimplifying, you can ask A.I. (Artificial Intelligence via the Internet) or you can seek C.I. (Conscious Intelligence via a relationship expert). A.I. i

184 ChatGPT vs. Conscious Wisdom, Question #1: What qualities should a person look for in a life partner?

Sep 16 2024 60 mins

There are some very important questions that single people ask concerning their pursuit of intimacy, and in this episode, the most frequently asked question is addressed. But where do you go for answers you can trust? Well, at the risk of oversimplifying, you can ask A.I. (Artificial Intelligence via the Internet) or you can seek C.I. (Conscious Intelligence via a relationship

183 Warning Signs: 5 (Subtle) Signs a Relationship is Headed for Trouble

Sep 09 2024 67 mins

Dr. John Gottman, a famous couple’s therapist and relationship researcher, has identified four warning signs that a relationship is doomed. They are criticism, contempt, defensiveness and stonewalling. If any of those are occurring between two people, he’s found that the relationship won’t last. And that makes sense, right? They are sort of obvious red flags. But in this

182 His Freedom, Her Love: A Talk by David Deida

Sep 02 2024 58 mins

In the previous episode, Roy shared something that no one had ever told him (and something you’ve probably never been told either): That although masculine people crave freedom at their core, they will never get it from either Woman or World, and likewise, although feminine people crave love at their core, they too will never get it from either Man or World. Because that is suc

181 What They Never Told You: The Root Cause of Masculine & Feminine Suffering

Aug 26 2024 55 mins

The host shares, quite candidly, that he's been struggling in his personal life. He talks about being in an angry, dark, whiney place and it hasn’t been pretty, to put it mildly. He explains that as he's paid attention to how shitty he's felt and why, it’s become clear to him that he's been lied to. There is something no one’s ever told him about the reality of life and rel