The Kink Perspective

Dec 16 2024 153 ep. 33 mins 30
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Join us weekly as we delve into the intricate connections between BDSM and psychology. Discover the latest research, community interactions, and key issues. Whether you're a seasoned participant or curious, tune in to enhance your understanding of the kink world.

Hosted By Chris Cornejo. A psychotherapist specializing in trauma, with 25 years of experience in the lifestyle community.

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Season 3 - It's a Wrap!

Dec 16 2024 24 mins  
In this special Year-End Wrap-Up episode, I’m taking a moment to reflect on the incredible journey we've had in 2024. From reaching listeners in 105 countries to breaking into the top 10% of global podcasts, it's been a year of growth and meaningful connection. I’m so grateful for the community we’ve built together. Your support and engagement have made all the difference. We

Season 3 Episode 50 - BDSM and Eroticism...

Dec 09 2024 32 mins  
On today’s show, I discuss the importance of eroticism in self-care and connection. I explore how embracing our erotic selves can deepen our relationships, enhance intimacy, and promote psychological healing. From understanding the power of touch to addressing barriers like body shame and trauma, I dive into how erotic energy can be a tool for self-discovery and growth. Whether y

Season 3 Episode 49 - BDSM and Role Reversal...

Dec 02 2024 27 mins  
On today's show, I discuss role reversal in BDSM—why someone who’s in control all day might crave letting go during a scene, or why a naturally nurturing person might enjoy stepping into a Dominant role. We dive into how role reversal can be a powerful way to explore different sides of ourselves, find balance, and deepen our connections with partners. I’ll share some of the p

Season 3 Episode 48 - My discussion with DrSpankologist...

Nov 25 2024 62 mins  
In this episode, I sit down with DrSpankologist, a passionate member of the Spanko community, to explore the emotional, psychological, and relational aspects of spanking. We dive into how spanking influences emotional well-being, the role of trust and vulnerability, and the unique connection it creates between partners. DrSpankologist shares personal stories, insights on common mis

Season 3 Episode 47 - BDSM and The Double-Edged Sword of Praise Kink...

Nov 18 2024 22 mins  
On today's show, I discuss the powerful role of praise in kink dynamics, exploring how it can deepen emotional connections while also addressing the potential pressures it creates. I dive into the fine balance between using praise as a tool for empowerment versus a means of control, offering practical tips for both Dominants and submissives on how to keep praise uplifting rather th

Season 3 Episode 46 - BDSM and the Middle East...

Nov 11 2024 50 mins  
On today’s show, I discuss BDSM in the Middle East, where cultural, religious, and social factors shape how kink is explored. From leading a “dual life” to navigating privacy and trust in hidden communities, I dive into the unique challenges faced by practitioners in countries like Saudi Arabia, UAE, Egypt, and Israel. Despite significant risks, individuals are finding ways t

Season 3 Episode 45 - BDSM and Healing Emotional Neglect...

Nov 04 2024 24 mins  
On today's show, I discuss the often-overlooked struggle for emotional intimacy in BDSM relationships. Join me as I explore the concept of emotional neglect and its impact on our ability to feel wanted and connected. We'll dive into the triggers that can stir up feelings of inadequacy, the weight of past experiences that shape our emotional responses, and the essential practices of

Season 3 Episode 44 - BDSM and Kink Dictation and Policing...

Oct 28 2024 46 mins  
On today’s show, I’m diving into what happens when outside voices—sometimes even from within the BDSM community—start influencing our personal choices in kink. This episode unpacks how pressures and opinions can quietly shift our boundaries or make us doubt our preferences. I’ll talk about reclaiming agency, staying true to what genuinely fulfills us, and how to shut out

Season 3 Episode 43 - BDSM and Rules for Disengagement in Relationships...

Oct 21 2024 31 mins  
On this episode, I discuss the complexities of supporting couples through divorce and the importance of establishing rules for disengagement across different relationship dynamics. We’ll explore the emotional roller coaster that comes with transitions, how to offer meaningful support to those navigating change, and practical tips for setting healthy boundaries. Whether you're in

Season 3 Episode 42 - BDSM and Burnout...

Oct 14 2024 25 mins  
On this episode, I discuss burnout in the BDSM lifestyle—how to recognize the signs, why it happens, and practical steps to handle it. Whether you're feeling disconnected from your scenes or just overwhelmed, I've got insights to help you navigate these challenges and rekindle your passion. Join me as we explore how to take care of yourself and maintain a healthy relationship wit