The Kink Perspective

Mar 03 2025 161 ep. 34 mins 35
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Join me weekly, as I dive into the intricate connections between BDSM and psychology. Discover the latest research, community interactions, and key issues. Whether you're a seasoned participant or curious, tune in to enhance your understanding of the kink world.

Hosted By Chris Cornejo. A psychotherapist specializing in trauma, with 25 years of experience in the lifestyle community.

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Season 4 Episode 8 - BDSM and the Validation Trap in Power Exchange...

Mar 03 2025 21 mins  
On today’s episode, I discuss the fine line between validation and dependence in D/s relationships. While praise and approval are natural parts of power exchange, they shouldn’t become the foundation of self-worth. When one partner relies too much on the other for validation, it can create emotional instability and strain the dynamic. I explore how this happens, the impact on b

Season 4 Episode 7 - My discussion with JohnBaku...

Feb 24 2025 113 mins  
For over a decade, John Baku’s name has been tied to a community that never sleeps. But what does that do to a person? In this conversation, it’s not about the platform, it’s about him. The weight, the expectations, the moments no one sees. No scripted answers, no filters, just an honest look at the man behind it all. This is John Baku, like you’ve never heard him before.Hi

Season 4 Episode 6 - BDSM and "Emotional Vampires..."

Feb 17 2025 42 mins  
On today’s episode, I discuss emotional vampires, those people who drain your energy, manipulate situations, and thrive on drama. In the BDSM lifestyle, where trust and deep connections matter, they can be especially damaging. We’ll break down how they operate, the tactics they use, and most importantly, how to protect yourself. And stick around until the end, I’ll be reveali

Season 4 Episode 5 - BDSM and the Business of “Education"...

Feb 10 2025 43 mins  
On this episode, I discuss the growing trend of BDSM education becoming a business first and a learning tool second. With more self-proclaimed educators, coaches, and researchers flooding the space, it’s becoming harder to separate real knowledge from clever marketing.I break down the red flags to watch for, titles that sound official but lack regulation, coaching that blurs the

Season 4 Episode 4 - BDSM and Shame and Guilt...

Feb 03 2025 26 mins  
On this episode, I discuss the weight of shame and guilt surrounding kinks and fetishes—where these feelings come from, how they impact us, and why they don’t belong to us in the first place. I break down the difference between shame and guilt, explore how they affect self-perception and relationships, and, most importantly, share practical steps to let go of them. Desire isn�

Season 4 Episode 3 - BDSM and Sexual Satisfaction vs. Fulfillment...

Jan 27 2025 33 mins  
On today's show, I discuss the distinction between sexual satisfaction and sexual fulfillment within the BDSM lifestyle. While physical release can be satisfying in the moment, true fulfillment often comes from emotional connection, trust, and vulnerability. I explore how mindfulness, intentional play, and addressing feelings like guilt or shame can help deepen intimacy and cre

Season 4 Episode 2 - My interview with -JUPIT3R- and Cheethame...

Jan 20 2025 92 mins  
On this episode, I sat down with -Jupit3r- and Cheetahme for a fun and insightful conversation about their 24/7 dynamic. We laughed along the way as we explored how they navigate their relationship in the scene, approach each other, and balance their personal lives with community engagement. They share the joys, challenges, and surprises that come with a 24/7 dynamic, offering some

Season 4 Episode 1 - My take on the incidents at the WoodShed in Orlando,Florida...

Jan 13 2025 72 mins  
Content Warning: This episode discusses consent violations, abuse, and systemic failures in the BDSM community. Listener discretion is advised. On this episode, I discuss the recent events surrounding the issues of theWoodShed in Florida, examining allegations of consent violations, leadership failures, and systemic harm within the community. I highlight survivor stories, analyze t

Season 3 - It's a Wrap!

Dec 16 2024 24 mins  
In this special Year-End Wrap-Up episode, I’m taking a moment to reflect on the incredible journey we've had in 2024. From reaching listeners in 105 countries to breaking into the top 10% of global podcasts, it's been a year of growth and meaningful connection. I’m so grateful for the community we’ve built together. Your support and engagement have made all the difference. We

Season 3 Episode 50 - BDSM and Eroticism...

Dec 09 2024 32 mins  
On today’s show, I discuss the importance of eroticism in self-care and connection. I explore how embracing our erotic selves can deepen our relationships, enhance intimacy, and promote psychological healing. From understanding the power of touch to addressing barriers like body shame and trauma, I dive into how erotic energy can be a tool for self-discovery and growth. Whether y