Turns Out... I'm Into It!

Feb 05 2025 76 ep. 38 mins 4
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Hosted by somatic sexologist Harley Rabbit, this show aims to have the conversations you can’t always have with friends! Through interviewing kinksters from all over the world, and sharing personal stories from her own kink journey, Harley encourages you to embrace your secret desires, let go of shame, and start living your best sex life!

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#78: Religious Shame, BDSM, and the Psychology of Power – With Shelby Devlin

Feb 05 2025 64 mins  
Send us a text In this episode of Turns Out I’m Into It, I’m joined by the incredible Shelby Devlin, a sex and intimacy coach with nearly a decade of experience specializing in BDSM and kink. With a master's degree in sexuality studies and a role as an advanced instructor at the Somatica Institute, Shelby brings a wealth of knowledge to our conversation. We dive into two powerf

#77 How to Tell Your Partner What You're Really Into... (Even If It Feels Super Scary)

Jan 29 2025 40 mins  
Send us a textSharing your sexual fantasies with a partner can feel incredibly vulnerable... maybe even terrifying! In this episode, Harley Rabbit dives deep into why it’s so hard to open up about our desires and offers practical, no-pressure strategies to help you navigate these conversations with confidence and curiosity. Whether you're hoping to act on your fantasies or simply

#76: Are my Sexual Fantasies Normal? Here's What Science Says

Jan 15 2025 35 mins  
Send us a text Episode Summary: In this episode of Turns Out I’m Into It, Harley Rabbit dives deep into the fascinating world of sexual fantasies, exploring why so many of us feel shame about them and how science challenges the idea of “normal” fantasies. Harley breaks down a landmark study, “What Exactly Is an Unusual Sexual Fantasy?”, which surveyed over 1,500 people to

#75: Santa's Little Helpers: Naughty Sex Toy Secrets Revealed - with Wendy Setless

Dec 18 2024 79 mins  
Send us a text It’s time to add a little extra joy to your holiday season! In this special Christmas episode, I’m joined by the fabulous Wendy Setless, a Somatica-trained sexual health, pleasure, and relationship coach, and the resident sexologist at her local adult store. Wendy brings her infectious enthusiasm and deep knowledge to help us navigate the world of adult toys—fr

#74: My Secret "Cock Worship" Fantasy: How Fantasies Unlock Better Sex

Dec 11 2024 35 mins  
Send us a text In this week’s episode, Harley Rabbit takes a deep dive into the world of sexual fantasies and reveals one of her most provocative ones—a cock worship scenario rooted in her submissive desires. Harley discusses how fantasies can unlock deeper arousal, help you connect with your core desires, and transform your sex life—whether you're indulging solo or with a pa

#73: 4 Common Beliefs About Women’s Sexuality You’re Probably Getting Wrong

Nov 27 2024 28 mins  
Send us a text In this episode of Turns Out I’m Into It, Harley Rabbit takes on some of the most stubborn myths and misconceptions about women’s sexuality. Whether you’re a woman navigating these expectations or a man eager to understand your partner better, this episode is for you. Harley shares her personal experiences and insights from studying sexology, conversations with

#72: Permission to be Sexy! Lessons from a Burlesque Class

Nov 20 2024 35 mins  
Send us a text In this empowering episode, Harley Rabbit dives into the topic of sex positivity and overcoming shame around sexuality. Sharing personal stories, including a formative memory from high school and a transformative recent experience in a burlesque dance class, Harley explores how societal messages shape our views on expressing sexuality. Harley reflects on reclaiming s

#71: Overcoming Old Stories - How Kink Helped me get my First Tattoo!

Nov 13 2024 42 mins  
Send us a text In this episode, Harley Rabbit opens up about finally getting her first tattoo—a significant milestone that stirred up childhood memories and beliefs. Harley reflects on how her journey into kink and pain play has reshaped her understanding of resilience, pain, and bravery. Sharing stories about childhood fears, needle phobias, and reclaiming agency through kink, H

#70: Harley Ruins Your Favorite Love Songs - Teddy Swims, Sia, Bruno Mars

Oct 30 2024 33 mins  
Send us a text In this episode, Harley dives into a fun yet insightful analysis of three popular love songs that might make you rethink your playlist: I Lose Control by Teddy Swims, Elastic Heart by Sia, and Grenade by Bruno Mars. Taking on the role of a relationship coach, Harley imagines these song lyrics as if they were clients sitting in a therapy session, sharing their romanti

#69: How Men Can Safely Explore CNC- Interview with Dotch

Oct 16 2024 71 mins  
Send us a text CNC (Consensual Non-Consent) is often discussed from a woman’s perspective, but what about men? In this episode, I’m joined by Dotch, a Somatica® practitioner who once saw CNC as a hard limit but has since learned to enjoy facilitating these fantasies. Dotch shares his journey, from initial discomfort to embracing CNC in a way that feels safe, consensual, and ex