With Love & Butter

Jun 17 2024 13 ep. 63 mins 3
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With Love and Butter is a chef’s podcast on dating & relationships and the food & drinks that get us through it, hosted by Courtnee Futch. Navigating the dating scene as a chef is…amusing and it has led me to this conclusion; in dating, much like food, discovery is encouraged. With Love and Butter is the sometimes-laughable retelling of lessons I've learned on the other side of major heartbreak, dating for discovery and recreating the meals I ate while figuring this single sh*t out. Come for the food & cocktail pairings. Stay for the tea!

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I’m Getting Married Y'all!!!! Engagement and other musings

Jun 17 2024 112 mins  
Hi my lovies, and welcome back to a special episode of With Love & Butter, a chef’s podcast on self-love and romance and all the food and drinks that get us through it. If you’re listening to this, you’ve already seen the title of this video so I’ll get right to it! I’m engaged. Screams internally. B and I have been engaged for almost 3 months now and I’ve been j

“I’ve gone as far as I can alone”. Musings on loving well, living together and fleeting girlhood.

Mar 12 2024 35 mins  
Welcome BACK to Season 2 of With Love & Butter, a chef’s podcast on self-love and romance and the food & drinks that get us through it. All cocktail, meal and wine pairings can be found with the full recipes on courtneefutch.com/podcast Today's Cocktail: 16 Carriages - an Apple Cider Mezcal Margarita Today's Recipe: Soy Tomato Braised Pot Roast with Melting Onio

SURPRISE EPISODE - Just Passing Through: Moving to Atlanta with My Love

Sep 06 2023 72 mins  
Welcome to a SURPRISE EPISODE of With Love & Butter, a chef’s podcast on dating & relationships and the food & drinks that get us through it. Today we’re talking about my final days in my Charlotte “bachelorette pad”, preparing for a move to Atlanta with my partner B, and how it feels to be starting not so from scratch this time around. You can support my NEW c

I’m Not Single Now? : Letting Love & Lessons Find Me

Apr 19 2023 127 mins  
Welcome to With Love & Butter, a chef’s podcast on dating & relationships and the food & drinks that get us through it. I’m Courtnee Futch, your host…baker, chef, mixologist, cookbook author, culinary producer and former serial monogamist gone roster-dater. This is Episode 13, our last of the season, before I take a brief hiatus and resume the podcast in the summ

Caught up in the Wrapture: 2022 Dating Wrapped + Q&A

Jan 04 2023 89 mins  
Welcome to With Love & Butter, a chef’s podcast on dating & relationships and the food & drinks that get us through it. I’m Courtnee Futch, your host…baker, chef, mixologist, cookbook author, culinary producer and former serial monogamist gone roster-dater. Happy New Year! Today we’re talking about my 2021 AND 2022 Dating Recap + answering 12 questions you all h

It’s just politics, not personal: Navigating Rejection & Anxious Attachment

Dec 30 2022 55 mins  
Welcome to With Love & Butter, a chef’s podcast on dating & relationships and the food & drinks that get us through it. I’m Courtnee Futch, your host…baker, chef, mixologist, cookbook author, culinary producer and former serial monogamist gone roster-dater. Today we’re talking about miscommunication, rejection and peeling back the layers of my anxious attachment

Some Love Lost: Navigating the Ugliness of Grief Post Breakup

Nov 14 2022 64 mins  
Welcome to With Love & Butter, a chef’s podcast on dating & relationships and the food & drinks that get us through it. I’m Courtnee Futch, your host…baker, chef, mixologist, cookbook author, culinary producer and former serial monogamist gone roster-dater. Today we’re talking grief, romantic, platonic, and the self. All cocktail, meal and wine pairings can be f

28 Questions: Reflections on Love & Life for Every Year

Sep 24 2022 97 mins  
Welcome to Episode 8 of  With Love & Butter, a chef’s podcast on dating & relationships and the food & drinks that get us through it. Today we’re switching things up. If you’re following me on TIkTok, we’ve likely interacted a lot and you’ve seen that I get asked hundreds of questions about dating, entrepreneurship adventures, my corporate career, food, f

Completely Hinged: Dating Apps & Spinning the Block for Italy via Detroit

Sep 08 2022 31 mins  
Welcome to Episode 7 of With Love & Butter, a chef’s podcast on dating & relationships and the food & drinks that get us through it.  Today we’re FINALLY diving into the year of Courting Courtnee. Starting with my very first days as a newly single woman navigating Hinge, a kiss so bad it bruised my lip for two days, a different man who we’ll call Detroit and

It Takes a Village: The Close Friends and the Romance of Community

Aug 12 2022 42 mins  
Welcome to Episode 5 of  With Love & Butter, a chef’s podcast on dating & relationships and the food & drinks that get us through it. Today we’re talking about my Close Friends on Instagram and the huge role they played in the #CourtingCourtnee journey, how they held digital and IRL space for me to process and the romance of having a platonic community. To re-e