Husband Material

Feb 17 2025 293 ep. 34 mins 126
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So you want to outgrow porn. But how? How do you change your brain, heal your heart, and save your relationship? Welcome to Husband Material with Drew Boa, where we answer all these questions and more! Each episode makes it easier for you to achieve lasting freedom from porn—without fighting an exhausting battle. Porn is a pacifier. This podcast will help you outgrow it and become a sexually mature man of God.

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How To Be Vulnerable: Scratches, Scabs, And Scars (with Henry Brown)

Feb 17 2025 22 mins  
Most of us were never taught how to be vulnerable when we’re sexually struggling. In this episode, Henry Brown shares a simple framework called “scratches, scabs, and scars” to help you decide what to share, when to share, how much to share, and who to trust. Henry Brown is the Director Of Operations & Support at Husband Material. He is nationally certified as a Life Coac

Porn And Narcissistic Personality Disorder (with Dr. Alexandra Repke)

Feb 10 2025 30 mins  
What is narcissistic personality disorder, and how does it interact with porn and sex addiction? For someone with NPD or narcissistic traits, what does healing and growth look like? Dr. Alexandra Repke (CSAT, EMDR, C-PD) is a Christian psychologist who typically work with successful professionals facing challenges in their relationships or careers, often stemming from issues relate

Three Problems With Bouncing Your Eyes

Feb 03 2025 28 mins  
What if Every Man’s Battle is wrong? In this episode, I share how I recently chose to “bounce my eyes” (as Every Man’s Battle teaches) and why I later regretted it. You’ll learn 3 reasons why bouncing your eyes is problematic—and what you can do instead when you see a sexually attractive person or picture. Related Episodes: When You Get An Erection...What To Do When You

How To Guard Against Sextortion (with Chris McKenna)

Jan 27 2025 31 mins  
What is sextortion, and how can we guard against it? Chris McKenna shares the dark reality of sextortion, why men (especially young men) are most vulnerable to being sextorted, and what we can do to prevent it. For more information, read this article: What Is Sextortion? A Prevention And Response Guide For Families Chris McKenna is the founder of Protect Young Eyes. He is a leading

What Your Wife Needs When You Relapse (with Tammy Gustafson)

Jan 20 2025 24 mins  
What does your wife need when you relapse into porn, unwanted sexual behavior, and breaking her trust? Tammy Gustafson explains what is going on inside your wife when you relapse, how you can helpful rather than hurtful, and why it's wise for your wife to have a relapse safety plan. Tammy Gustafson is the founder of the Betrayal Healing Conference. This free conference is for all w

Compassion For My Face: HMA Psychodrama Example

Jan 16 2025 67 mins  
In this live demo, Doug Carpenter guides Rick Carlson in healing childhood trauma through psychodrama. This episode is an example of Work It Out Wednesday, one of the weekly HMA Coaching Calls. Learn more and join HMA this weekend at joinHMA.com. Related episodes: Experience Healing Through PsychodramaA Story Of Healing Through Psychodrama Dr. Doug Carpenter is a clinical psycholog

Understanding External & Internal Family Systems To Outgrow Porn

Jan 13 2025 40 mins  
Learn how external & internal family systems have shaped your sexuality—and what's happening inside you when you feel the pull of pornography. This episode was recorded at "HMA In A Day" as a preview of the Husband Material Academy video course. Watch the video here. Support the show Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step

The Guy In The Locker Room: HMA Fantasy Friday Example

Jan 09 2025 43 mins  
In this episode, Drew Boa helps Jordan Castille process a sexual fantasy about a guy in a locker room. This is a demonstration of Fantasy Friday, one of the weekly HMA Coaching Calls. Learn more and join HMA this week at joinHMA.com. Drew Boa is the founder of Husband Material. He is a Pastoral Sex Addiction Professional, Inner Child Recovery Specialist, Brainspotting Practitioner,

How To Face Your Sexual Fantasies: Arousal vs. Desire

Jan 06 2025 42 mins  
Learn how to face your sexual fantasies and process the particularity of what sexually arouses you. This episode was recorded at "HMA In A Day" as a preview of the Husband Material Academy video course. Support the show Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mi

New Stats On Porn Use Among Christians (with Nick Stumbo)

Dec 30 2024 34 mins  
75% of Christian men and 40% of Christian women watch porn on a regular basis, but only 21% wish they didn't. Nick Stumbo shares these stats and other major findings of Beyond The Porn Phenomenon, a new research report produced by Barna and Pure Desire Ministries. Nick Stumbo is the Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries and host of the Pure Desire Podcast. He's also the auth