Master Your Marriage

Oct 31 2024 92 ep. 29 mins 23
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The average couple waits 6 years to get help in their marriage. That's 6 years of pain, hurt, frustration and lost opportunity. This podcast is designed to help you NOT become a part of that statistic. Hosted by Dr. Robert and Sharla Snow — themselves married for 31 years — The Master Your Marriage show is here with straight-talking guidance on how to fill your marriage with fun, friendship and love, without it ever feeling like "hard work." No matter how long you've been struggling with your marriage, or how long it's been since you've felt that "spark," we promise you, there is hope! Your MASTERFUL marriage starts here.

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Eliminating Toxic Relationship Patterns

Oct 31 2024 27 mins  
"You can't change what you can't see."In this episode of Master Your Marriage, we explore the concept of the adaptive child and how it influences relationship dynamics. They discuss the importance of self-awareness in recognizing losing strategies and the need for self-confrontation to foster emotional growth. Practical tips are provided for navigating different relationship quadra

Identifying Dysfunctional Patterns in Marriage: Mastering Intimacy Part 4

Oct 24 2024 32 mins  
In this episode, we explore how to identify and end dysfunctional patterns in marriage that hinder intimacy. We introduce the relationship grid, which helps couples understand their behaviors and reactions when triggered. The discussion covers the importance of self-esteem and boundaries, leading to an exploration of four quadrants that represent different relationship dynamics. By

Strong Boundaries, Stronger Relationships: Mastering Intimacy Part 3

Oct 17 2024 30 mins  
In this episode, we explore the concept of boundaries in relationships, focusing on both physical and psychological boundaries. The discussion emphasizes the importance of understanding and establishing healthy boundaries to foster intimacy and connection while avoiding the pitfalls of being boundaryless or overly walled off. Practical strategies for implementing boundaries in dail

The Shame That Destroys Connection: Mastering Intimacy Part 2

Oct 09 2024 30 mins  
"You can't love someone else unless you love yourself."In this episode of Master Your Marriage, we explore the profound connection between shame and self-esteem, and their impact on our ability to experience connection and intimacy. We introduce a reactive behavior map to help listeners understand their own and their partner's behaviors during conflicts. The discussion delves into

Why We Lose It, Triggers & Regressive Behavior: Mastering Intimacy Part 1

Oct 02 2024 30 mins  
In this episode, we explore the concept of the adaptive child and how it influences our reactions during relationship conflicts. We discuss the importance of self-confrontation and self-reflection as foundational elements for intimacy. The conversation delves into the impact of past traumas on present behaviors, the necessity of recognizing when the adaptive child takes over, and s

Half In, Half Out: The Damage of Not Fully Choosing Your Partner

Sep 26 2024 26 mins  
In this conversation, we delve into the detrimental effects of indecision in relationships, particularly in marriage. It explores how anxiety and the pursuit of perfection can lead to paralysis in decision-making, ultimately impacting personal and relational growth. We emphasize the importance of recognizing the finite nature of human existence, the fear of regret that underlies in

Withdrawal: Losing Relationship Strategies #7

Sep 19 2024 26 mins  
"Withdrawal can slowly destroy connection."In this episode, we discuss the concept of withdrawal in relationships, exploring how it manifests and the dangers it poses to emotional connection. We delve into the difference between withdrawal and mature acceptance, emphasizing the importance of communication and responsible distance-taking. The conversation highlights the detrimental

Defensiveness: Losing Relationship Strategies #6

Sep 12 2024 29 mins  
"Defense is the first act of war."Defensiveness is a corrosive behavior that goes against the purpose of marriage, which is personal growth. It is non-accountability, anti-growth, and unrepentant. Dr. John Gottman identified defensiveness as one of the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse, which predicts divorce. Defensiveness prevents true intimacy and creates a barrier to growth. The

Resentful Accommodation: Losing Relationship Strategies #5

Sep 05 2024 27 mins  
Is sacrifice no longer a virtue?In this episode, we discuss the concept of resentful accommodation in marriage. We explore the idea that sacrifice is often seen as a virtue in relationships, but there is a point where sacrifice can become unvirtuous and detrimental to the relationship. What's the difference between virtuous sacrifice, which benefits everyone involved, and unvirtuou

Retaliation or Punishment: Losing Relationship Strategies #4

Aug 28 2024 25 mins  
"Retaliation is trying to cause the same emotion in the other person that you're feeling."In this episode, we discuss the destructive pattern of retaliation and punishment in relationships. We explore the different forms of retaliation, including direct and indirect, and how it can harm the connection between partners. We know the importance of recognizing and confronting the urge