The Generous Husband Daily Rant

Nov 07 2024 30 ep. 1 mins 21
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Marriage can be great, but it's not always easy. This podcast is designed to help you be a better husband and have a better marriage. We discuss all manner of marriage issues, including sexuality. You will hear about how your wife thinks and what she wants. You will learn how to express your desires in a way she will hear. And here will be plenty of idea for ways to show your love, enjoy life together, and make your sex life better for both of you.

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Breaking Free from Porn and Finding Lasting Freedom

Nov 07 2024 2 mins  
I got the expected push-back from saying porn is not addictive. I know a lot of Christian groups and some secular ones say it is an addiction. But they base this on something less than solid science. The hard science says it’s not. There is a difference between physical addiction and mental habituation. Porn is the latter. I suspect we will have to agree to disagree on this.

Weighing the Benefits and Negatives of Porn Use

Nov 05 2024 1 mins  
Ever since I stopped making a living doing very physical labour, I’ve struggled with my weight. I like food; I enjoy flavour. A couple of times I have dropped a good deal of weight. And while I’ve not always kept it all off, it’s been fifteen years since I was within 50 pounds of my all-time high. When I have lost weight, it was because I didn’t like how th

The Myth of Porn Addiction: Science Says It’s a Habit

Nov 04 2024 1 mins  
I use AI to suggest titles and SEO data for my posts. And every time I put in something about porn, what it kicks back includes the words “porn addiction”. Here’s the thing; porn addiction is not a real thing. Addiction is a word that has a specific meaning, and porn doesn’t check all the boxes. Those who argue porn can be addictive point out that porn use activates

Creating a Sex-Friendly Bedroom to Make it Better for Her

Nov 02 2024 1 mins  
If you want to have great sex, you have to make your bedroom a great place to have sex. So let’s look at some things that make a bedroom sex friendly for a woman: Temperature: Women run cooler than men. If the temperature is good for you, she’s probably cool or cold. And that’s not good for sex. During the winter, a small heater to boost the temperature can

FF: The Radical Husband: Meeting Both Her Needs & Wants

Nov 01 2024 2 mins  
In, What do you mean by “need”? I said I felt sorry for anyone living with a spouse who only felt they had to meet needs, not wants. Of course, it’s not that clear in most marriages. We’re happy to give what we like to give, and what’s not too difficult for us to give. We don’t quibble over those things being wants or needs. We start to draw those lines

A Hard Truth: Your Wife’s ‘No’ Isn’t Why You Use Porn

Oct 31 2024 1 mins  
A common excuse for porn use is “I do it because my wife says no to sex”. Or “refuses to do oral” or “won’t have sex with the lights on.” If you looked at porn before you were married, this excuse is not valid. Your wife’s sexual reluctance may be a trigger, but it’s not the cause. The other thing I hear porn users say about their wife is she is overr

Exposing the Lies: Excuses Hinder Freedom from Porn

Oct 30 2024 1 mins  
Today, I want to deal with the lies and excuses we use to avoid dealing with porn. We tell ourselves these things because doing so makes us feel better about not ending our porn use. It’s Not Really Wrong: I’ve had guys try to use the Bible to prove this. But they do so by taking things out of context and violating basic rules about interpreting scripture. Getting turn

Breaking Free from Porn: Hope for the Porn-Again Christian

Oct 29 2024 1 mins  
Are you a porn again Christian? You’ve stopped a number of times, and just keep falling back into it? First, no condemnation. Second, we can walk away and stay away. Most of us first saw porn before puberty. Maybe we stumbled on it, maybe someone introduced us to it. But for the most part we didn’t go looking for it, and when we saw it we were powerless. It hooked into

The Intimacy Gap: The Real Reason for Orgasm Disparity

Oct 26 2024 1 mins  
You have no doubt heard of the orgasm gap. If you have somehow managed to miss it, the short version is when a man has sex with a woman, he is far more likely to come than she is. Most of the time when this is discussed, the gist of it is this happens because men are selfish and/or bad at sex. If one digs into the facts, the situation is not as it is usually portrayed. In a hook-

Beyond Survival: Fulfilling Her Needs AND WANTS

Oct 25 2024 2 mins  
Recently I said: If your spouse has a need, either you do your best to provide it, or you do not. The first is loving, the second is not. What we often hear when we talk about “needs” is “That’s not a need, it’s a want.” My first thought, which I usually don’t express, is “I feel sorry for your spouse if you feel you should only give them what they ne