Choose To Be with Choose Recovery Services; Betrayal Trauma Healing

Nov 19 2024 221 ep. 35 mins 13

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Choose To Be is focused on women healing from infidelity, and betrayal trauma. We are committed to helping women heal. Be a part of the conversation as we interview experts and others who have gone through this journey and gain tools to help you move forward. Alana and Amie bring their own experiences to the conversation, and their individual expertise makes for a unique and valuable resource. Alana Gordon-LMFT, CCPS, CSAT candidate, Betrayal Coach Amie Woolsey-Betrayal Coach, CPC, ELI-MP, APSATS trainee For more information: ChooseRecoveryServices.com | [email protected]

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